Friday, January 4, 2013
Five Minute Friday... Opportunity
Five Minute Friday is when you spend five minutes writing on a word (Lisa Jo Baker gives a word each Friday) and lots of people write their thoughts on that one word. The Rules are... you write for five minutes without editing, and then publish it. And then you absolutely comment on the person before you who wrote. So here is today's...
The moments that we might let pass by, missing in a moment an opportunity. An opportunity to hold a child who is getting to old to always let me hold her because she is hurting over something. She pushes her eyes in hoping she will hold in the tears, and I hold her close hoping she will let them fall. I hope I will have an opportunity to hold her again while she is still small enough for me to do it. I put down my coffee and just hold her for a minute, hoping this will not pass.
I am always looking for an opportunity, a break, but then I miss the little ones here. The ones when questions are asked from no where, "Mom, have you ever had a friend that is not your friend anymore?" Brush it off or stop and talk? Make room for words that might impact a child, fears or hopes at that moment. I missed that opportunity, I kept talking trying to keep it light. But I have thought of the question since then and hope I get a chance to go back there.
Opportunity in my life is usually a moment not some big event. It is usually a little thing that could make a big difference in the little worlds I live in .